Relationshiptivity 💘

Its okay to be larger than your partner!

Most ladies tend to hold back when it comes to finding the love of their lives because they feel like they are bigger than their partners but I am here to tell you that’s not it .

This is something I personally have struggled with. We’re taught this gender norms that women are petite,docile and dainty while men are supposed to be masculine. So sad right?

Well I believed in those gender norms until I had my first relationship. But, these ideas are so deeply ingrained in me the I get insecure that I’m the larger one in the relationship. It’s something I dwell on and still bring it up with my partner. But he doesn’t mind and it’s my own insecurities at play here.

I just want to let you know that it gets better , or better with time it will make you less insecure I know I am not there yet.

Know that you are beautiful lovable and it’s ok to be bigger ❤️